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Day 96 Talk …

Posted by themirrenlee on 05/04/2012

Talk …

amongst yourselves.

I’m having a Flare. Sitting up is a problem. As is everything else.

Fibromites know what I’m talking about.

Hopefully, will be able to finish update of my new direction tomorrow.

In the meantime, talk amongst yourselves. ūüôā

I’m just flarin’ …

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My Children/Grandparents/In-Laws

Posted by themirrenlee on 02/03/2012

My SON:          David Gregory McVay, born 1967 (The Summer of Love!)

His WIFE:        Katie, born 1969

My GRANDSON:         Nicholas George McVay, born 1999

My DAUGHTER:         Sarah Mirren Kalpokas, born 1987


Father:  George

Mother: Janine, deceased

Grandparents (Mother’s side): Dorothy and Tom, deceased


Father:  Mario Kalpokas

His Wife:  Karen

Their two sons: Oliver and Lewis

(Sarah is very close to all of her brothers, which I think is wonderful and a credit to both me and Mario for not making them feel like “half” anything.)

  • Grandmother: ¬†Zina Kalpokas (known as Babi, pron. “Bubbie”)
  • Grandfather: ¬†John Kalpokas, deceased (known as Duki, pron. “Dookie”, like cookie)¬†

(Zina and John came to Australia after the war from Lithuania. John’s real name was Jonas, and Mario’s is Margeris, which were all too difficult for Australians to pronounce. Giedra used to be known as Joyce in school, but eventually switched back to her real name. Gint was lucky in that his shortened name was easy to pronounce. With my name, I am all too familiar with how hard it is for most people to pronounce something slightly different sounding!)

Aunt:  Giedra Moon
Her husband:  Russell Moon
Their daughter: Aurelia
Their son: Daniel
Uncle:  Gintaras Auktuolis (known as Gint)
His Partner:  Michael Upson


MOTHER:  Mary Mirren Deutsch, nee Macleod, born 1924, died 1987 (Australian)


FATHER:   Paul Robert Deutsch, born 1921, died 2010 (American)

(Everyone called him Paul, except his mother, who called him Bobby, and his sister, who called him Deutsch)

I think grandparents are very important in a family, and it’s sad that David and Katie both have no living grandparents now, while Sarah is lucky she still has her Babi. Nicky is lucky in that he has me and Katie’s father.

(He also has David’s real father, Donald Forester, who lives in Southern California, but we have no contact with him.)


Paul Deutsch

Jeanette Sullivan

They divorced, then Jeanette had:





John Macleod

Annie (died when Mom was 12 years old)

Stepmother: Sheila Macleod, deceased

MOTHER’S SIBLINGS (from John and Sheila):



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My Brothers and Sisters

Posted by themirrenlee on 01/03/2012

  • Mirren Lee Deutsch (Me, the eldest, born in 1951. I dropped the Deutsch for my acting career; people had their hands full trying to pronounce Mirren! Now with Helen Mirren having such a high profile I notice that no one ever seems to have a problem pronouncing her name, but they still do with mine. Why is it difficult to get a grip on it as a first name but not as a last? I can only come to the conclusion that we expect last names to be “different”, but first names confuse us if there is no frame of reference in our culture. It comes from a Scottish bishop who became a saint. There is a St. Mirren’s football club in Scotland that is quite well known to soccer enthusiasts. So while it’s a man’s name, it has been a female family name on my mother’s side for generations. My mother’s mother was Annie Mirren Dollar, my mother was Mary Mirren Macleod, then there’s me, and I named my daughter Sarah Mirren Kalpokas {her father’s last name}. Someday I must find out if it goes back any further.)
  • Molly Anna Deutsch, born 1952.¬†(My mother always called her “Nana”, after the book by Emile Zola. However, Nana always hated it because she was called “Nana Banana” in school. When she grew up, she changed her name a few times, finally settling on Annie Macleod. My mother’s maiden name was Macleod, and her mother’s name was Annie. I will refer to her as Nana when I talk about our childhood, and then switch to Annie later.)
  • Paul Michael Deutsch, born 1953. (Always known as “Michael”.)
  • Jonathan Peter Deutsch, born 1955. (Always known as “Peter”.)
  • Sheila Jinette Deutsch, born 1957. (Her married name is now Narayan. Her middle name was supposed to have been “Ginette”, but while getting recorded the lady spelled it wrong!)
  • Daniel Colin Deutsch, born 1962.
  • Rory Mor Macleod Deutsch, born 1961.

My parents finally divorced, after over 30 years of a very unhappy marriage, and my father remarried. He had two further sons with his new wife, and they both bear the names of sons he already had! I always found this blackly funny, wondering if he “forgot” about this fact in the face of so many children, or just couldn’t think of any more names. They are:

Stephen Michael Deutsch, born 1986.

Jonathon Deutsch, born 1991. (I have forgotten his middle name for the moment. The Jonathon is spelled differently than Peter’s above, but ¬†I still find it a bit uncomfortably close. I wonder if anyone else would feel a bit “weirded out” if their father named another child the same as them? Everyone in my family determinedly acted like it was no biggie, but I found it insulting, hurtful and definitely “a different kind of normal”.)

These two boys were born when I was in my thirties; they lived in Southern California, while I was in Australia. I have only met them a few times, and in fact hardly know them, so they are not grouped in with the siblings I knew growing up.

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